"A Wedding Takes An Afternoon
A Marriage Takes A Lifetime"
Be prepared for both!
Now that you have found each other, premarital counseling is about deepening your commitment to the relationship and building upon what you already have.
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Premarital Counseling in Los Angeles
Premarital counseling in Los Angeles can greatly improve your odds of a lasting marriage by helping you learn how to get through difficult times before they arrive on your doorstep. Sadly, by the time couples begin to think of getting help through counseling, it's often too late. Planning ahead can save the most precious thing in your possession: your love for each other.
Why Premarital Counseling Matters
For newlyweds, there are an average of 20 positive communications for every 1 negative one. Over time, that ratio tends to shift downward to about 5 to 1. Marriages get into trouble when it drops to 3 to 1 or lower. Premarital counseling can help you learn how to keep that ratio well above 5 to 1, so your relationship stays on its high well after the wedding day. Together, we can chart a course for keeping and deepening the love you already feel for one another.
Common Concerns Couples Face Before the Wedding
The pressure on brides to always appear happy can be overwhelming, and plenty of very real questions and emotions tend to surface in the lead-up to a wedding, including:
- What last name to choose
- Sadness about leaving single life behind
- Handling meddling mothers and mothers-in-law-to-be
- Resolving feelings about the death of a parent or a parents' divorce
- Cold feet and fears of commitment
- Ongoing jealousy about a partner's past
- "How do we keep the passion going?"
- Navigating religious or cultural differences
With divorce rates reaching close to 50%, seeking relationship counseling before marriage has proven, time and again, to be one of the greatest assets in building a marriage that lasts. Addressing these issues sooner rather than later can be the difference between feeling satisfied, loved, and meaningfully connected — or feeling out of control. Most people wait years after problems first emerge before seeking counseling, and by the time they experience the results therapy can provide, they often wish they'd started sooner.
What Premarital Counseling Can Help You Achieve
- Resolve money issues
- Develop skills to cope with in-laws
- Resolve issues with difficult relatives or friends
- Successfully blend families
- Improve communication skills
- Foster deeper love and connection
- Learn how to argue constructively
- Recognize and overcome jealousy
- Get past wedding-related conflicts
- Navigate bachelor and bachelorette party stress
- Resolve wedding jitters and fears of walking down the aisle
- Strengthen self-image and self-esteem
- Improve decision-making and life choices
- Build the ability to set and achieve shared goals
About Dr. Walton’s Approach
Dr. Walton helps couples overcome the emotional turmoil that can surround the wedding day — from handling in-laws, to navigating the bachelor party, to letting go of jealousy over past relationships, to easing the stress of walking down the aisle. He addresses the emotional side of getting married directly, through communication strategies, psychological insights, and self-empowerment techniques.
He takes a positive, innovative approach to couples therapy that breaks through communication blocks to build listening skills and intimacy, heal resentments, and develop the closeness that leads to lasting, loving relationships. As a marriage and relationship specialist, he's helped thousands of people overcome the inner emotional saboteurs that can threaten to derail such a joyful time in their lives.
He's active throughout the therapy process — offering thoughtful, empathic listening, insightful feedback, growth-oriented challenges, handouts, and guidance. To help you get started right away, he also offers free self-help audios and videos on this site, along with a blog at TheLAtherapist.com.
Media Recognition & Features
Dr. Walton’s premarital and relationship advice has been featured across national media, including:
- Cosmopolitan Magazine
- Fox Entertainment
- Discovery Health's Berman & Berman Show
- iVillage.com and WebiHealth.com
- Thatz Entertainment and Bergen Health & Life
- The Greg Mantel Show and Lisa Garr's The Aware Show
- XM's Alvin Jones Show
- 2007 Oscar Night of the Stars
He also hosted the drive-time radio show Shrink Rap on KCSN FM in Los Angeles, which streamed worldwide and made LA Magazine's "Best Of" list. Through the show, he interviewed and exchanged ideas with many leading voices in mental health, making their insights accessible to his listeners and clients.
Schedule a Free Consultation
The goal of premarital counseling is simple: give you a better chance at building a strong, lasting marriage. Call today to schedule a free office consultation and get started in the right direction.
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Available CDs from Dr. James Walton
