Love is Blind, and for Good Reasons

Sometimes couples get caught in a patter of criticism, hurt and shame. Criticism can be broken down into its components of judgment and demand. We judge the other as being bad or good and we demand that they be the way we want them to be. When we criticize someone for who they are rather…

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On-Line Dating

For many singles, Valentine’s Day is that incessant reminder of happy couples with red hearts and beautiful bouquets that only adds to their feelings of aloneness. Armed with an arsenal of Internet sites that promise a lifetime of happiness, they join in droves. But, do those services really work? Of all the cultural changes that…

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